As I previously talked about, I have been mentoring five girls at the LEAP school throughout the semester, ages 15-16. My friend Ali and I have been working together as the girls’ mentors, and it has been such a fun experience. Getting to know them has been a slow process, because principally, there is a bit of a language barrier. At first, Ali and I weren’t sure if the girls even liked us, because they would be very quiet and shy when we talked to them, and then giggle whenever we would talk. We felt like we weren’t really connecting with them, like we all weren’t on the same page, so Bones organized a meeting with all of us to talk about how things had been going. During this talk, it was revealed that a lot of the time, the girls were finding it really hard to understand our accents, slang we used, and the manner in which we talk. It wasn’t that they didn’t like us or didn’t want to get to know us, but the exact opposite. They wanted so badly to just sit around and chat and get to know us, but were feeling shy and embarrassed that they didn’t feel 100% proficient in their English. As Bones explained, they are actually more intimidated by each other than Ali and I, because their harshest critics tend to be their peers, where if they slip up with one little mistake, someone is always there to correct and poke fun. Once we understood this, Ali and I made an effort to make them feel as comfortable as possible with us. We tried speaking slower and more clearly, which I think helped a lot. After this meeting, something just clicked, and we instantly got so much closer with the girls. We began bonding more like good friends and really getting to know them, all the while still helping them out with their school work and maintaining the mentor-mentee relationship.
Since the semester is almost over, a couple weekends ago Ali and I decided to take our girls for a nice day on the weekend where they could choose something they wanted to do and we could spend the day hanging out, talking and bonding. The girl’s chose to go to this casino called Grant West, which is also a hotel, ice skating rink, mini-mall, movie theatre, and almost anything else you could want to do. They wanted to go ice-skating, so Ali and I met them at their school in Saturday morning. We took the train with them to Grand West, which was interesting. Trains in South Africa are an experience in themselves. During any given rush-hour time, the trains will be absolutely packed full, with people even straddling on the outside of the train between two cars to find space to ride. There is only first class, and third class (a ridiculously irrelevant situation left over from apartheid times), and there is no tangible difference between the two, besides the fact that first class will be slightly less packed. It is an honor system, so many people don’t even buy tickets because in third class, there are so many people that it would be impossible to go around asking for tickets from each person, and so they only really check first class, and only some times. Most of the people on third class are black or colored. On our trip, people were giving us sideways glances on third class, because we were two white girls with a group of 5 black teenage girls, and this was something they probably aren’t very used to seeing. Every time I’ve taken third class on the train, I’ve pretty much been the only white person on there (aside from whatever Americans I might be with). En route to Grand West, Ali and I both got a marriage proposal each, whereby the men would go up to our LEAP girls and tell them that he was taking one of us home with him to become his wife. Pretty funny stuff.
Once we got there, we had a really great day. The girls decided they didn’t really want to ice skate, and that they wanted to see a movie instead. The movie they wanted to see was My Best Friend’s Girl, which is a highly inappropriate movie for 15 year olds, so we vetoed that option. It ended up being a little awkward, because we were expecting the girls to come with money enough to pay for themselves, and they didn’t. They in turn were expecting us to pay for everything, not out of selfishness or greed but just because apparently it is customary that girls, in their culture in the township they are from, are never expected to pay for anything, so they never bring any money. They might have also assumed that we had infinite amounts of money because we are American, but either way, we had to explain the situation to them. In the end, I think they felt bad for assuming and might have been a little embarrassed, but Ali and I agreed that we could pay for their entrance and that we would buy them lunch. What was cute was that, after lunch was done, the girls all pooled their own money (with 6 rand help from us) to surprise us with ice cream cones. It was really sweet of them, and showed that it had just been a miscommunication. We had so much fun that day, just gossiping, talking about everything from school, boys, crushes, family, life in America, and all that. It was such a well-spent Saturday, and I think we really connected with them on a whole other level.
After lunch, Bones came and picked all of us up to take us home. All 8 of us piled into this tiny Euro car, and Bones had to take alternate routes to avoid the police checkpoints he knew were stationed outside of Langa, that township that both he and the girls are from. It was my first time in Langa, and the afternoon that followed was pretty incredible. The girls ended up taking us on a tour of the entire township, showing us various places that they frequent, and special sites and all that. I think what they were most excited to show us was the “sheep heads,” which is basically exactly what it sounds: skinned, decapitated sheep heads roasting on an open barbeque. The girls took turns grossing us out by proclaiming their favorite parts to eat, from brains to ears to eyeballs. The most special part was that each girl took us to her home and introduced us to their families. Most of their houses were simple, one to two room houses, some more developed than others. Township houses were built by the government under apartheid, and the inequities and unjust nature of what they were allocated is very apparent. Each “house” is connected to the next in a paper-doll fashion, and there are just lines and lines of houses, all so close and crowded. One of the girls talked about how when fires are so dangerous because when they happen in one house, they quickly become massive because each house just catches so quickly because they aren’t made out of the best material, and are so close to each other. Some of the girls seemed a little reticent to show us their places (although we never asked, it was all completely their idea), because I think they thought we might judge them based on the size of how much decor they had. One girl took us into her house, and quickly exclaimed, “See! It’s just one room, one window, and one door. Nothing special.” Each family member was so happy to see us, and would thank us for coming to see them and for taking the time to visit South Africa. We were sure to clarify that this was a pleasure all our own, and that we were so grateful they let us into their homes and welcomed us. Even walking around Langa, you feel the sense of community. As both the girls and Bones have said, everyone knows everyone in the town. People wave, joke, talk, gossip, and argue in the streets. They get really excited to see foreigners (we were the ONLY white people I saw the entire time, besides this one very touristy and lost-looking older European man), and the girls said that they were even getting special attention from LEAP students who normally wouldn’t have even said hi to them, but did because they were with Americans. Kids run around playing everywhere where there’s space, and you just get a certain feeling being there that I can’t really provide adequate words for. It was an immensely special day for me, and I will remember it forever.
After we parted from the girls, Bones took us to his place, where we hung out in his room for a bit, and even met his mom. According to him, she is the gossip queen and loves to talk and chat and knows everything about everyone. She was so sweet when we met her, and gave us a huge hug and welcomed us with incredible warmth and love. We then went off to a shebeen, which is a place in townships that is usually someone’s home or a tavern-like place, where they sell alcohol and people (mostly men) go to hang out, watch sport, listen to music, and drink. There were many extremely drunk people there, and we obviously stood out like sore thumbs (only white people and for most of the time the only girls) and got approached several times, one guy even going so far as to ask if we were models…haha! But it was fun to see Bones in his element and meeting all his friends and seeing what partying and hanging out is like on his side of Cape Town. I went home content and feeling very privileged to have been able to experience something that most people will never be able to say they’ve done. And let me say, I really think those people are missing out on something great.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Monday, September 1, 2008
Oceanview township homestay
Two weekends ago, we did a homestay in a colored township community called Oceanview. In South Africa, the term “colored” differs from “black” in that colored people are of mixed race, and have lighter skin, while “black” is used for black Africans. Under apartheid, colored people, because they were “less black” due to their lighter skin, were given preferential treatment over the blacks. I’ll talk a little about the manifestations of this is current times later.
I was really excited to meet my family but also a little nervous of course, but I really couldn’t have gotten a better one! Another CIEE student, Megan, and I stayed with the Bowman family. The parents, Donovan and Gadija, were a young couple of the sweetest disposition. They had two kids, Caitlyn (3 years old) and Darren (6 years old), who were so cute and ecstatic that we were there to stay with them. They also had the cutest little dog, Sandy, and a very nice house that they opened up to us with so much warmth and welcome.
We first arrived on Friday night to have dinner in the local school’s auditorium. There was a huge feast set up with music, big tables, so much food, and entertainment as well. Each family was sitting at a table, eagerly holding up a number (which we students had all been assigned earlier) waiting to connect with the students who would be staying with them. We all made our way to our new families, and sat down to enjoy a great dinner and some introductory conversations with our families. From the start, I knew we were going to get along so well with our family, they were so laid back and so enthusiastic to ask us questions, answer our questions, know all about our lives and also have some good discussion about important topics. Oceanview has a lot of problems with the youth dropping out of school, having drug or alcohol problems, and gang activity, but they are very proactive about attempting alter this path. They have dance, singing, and other talent-centered programs which get the kids doing something that they are passionate about, but also keeps them busy and off of the streets, not permitting them the opportunity to even get involved in the negative activities that occur there. So at the dinner, we had some of those kids perform for us, and it was extremely enjoyable. You could tell from the vibe the performances gave off that they had worked SO hard on their songs and routines and were very proud to share their talents with us.
From the dinner, our family took us to Donovan’s parent’s house, where the kids were fast asleep on the couches. Because they were passed out, the four of us made the executive decision to leave the kids at their grandma’s house, and we proceeded to go out to a party in Simonstown. Under the apartheid regime’s Group Areas Act, certain areas of land and cities or towns were designated solely for whites. Despite the fact that blacks or coloreds may have been living on this land for generations, forced removals occurred where they were made to abandon their homes and lives that they knew to be relocated to areas that were acceptable for them to live in, and were “black” or “colored” areas specifically. Often, families were made to move from areas where soil was fertile with pleasant climates and other favorable conditions to dry, dirt-filled towns they would have never chosen to move to on their own accord. The significance of Simonstown in this situation is a majority of the people who live in Oceanview today were those who were forcibly removed from their homes in Simonstown. Therefore, many of them have feelings of nostalgia for their former homes and some even resent Oceanview, citing various complaints that make it less desirable than Simonstown. Anyway, so we went to this random charity dance party in Simonstown, where people bring their own bottles of whatever alcohol they prefer, and lots of snacks or food, sit at a table, and drink, dance, and karaoke the night away. It turns out it was a costume party, and all the people there were dressed in school uniforms. There was a vast mixture of people there, some old, some young, but I guess most of the people were staff from a hospital in the area. It was such a great time, Megan and I, along with a couple other CIEE students whose families brought them as well, definitely karaoked to Britney Spears…haha. We also had the chance to have some pretty deep conversations about various topics, which I really enjoyed.
The next day, on Saturday, we spent the morning getting to know the family and being introduced to the kids. Darren immediately took a strong liking to me, which might have been due to the fact that I had brought 3 little squishy USC balls (a football, soccer ball, and one we later deemed to be a volleyball) for them as presents...first impressions are KEY. We spent the morning playing various random games with them before we started our day. Our family took us to this gemstone factory where a few members of the family worked, and Donovan used to work, and it was really interesting. They had all the big machinery there, and Donovan taught us a little about the process through which the rocks go and showed us some of the behind the scenes stuff. The products they were selling were gorgeous, and it was a fun time. Then we went off to the grocery store to get all the supplies for the braai (BBQ) we were about to have that night. Darren and I had a ball at the grocery store. He spent most of the time riding piggy-back style (he was really light so it didn’t hurt too bad) and we invented this game he called “plus.” In this game, I would give him two numbers, and he would add them together and give me the answer. Who knew the kid would love practicing his math facts so much? We then moved on to “take away”, which was a little more challenging, but he still got most of it. For the rest of the trip, I was constantly begged with pleading eyes, “can we play plus please?” It was so sweet. Megan also taught him one of those hand-clapping/ jive-like games that I also knew, and that alternated in demand with “plus” as well at every possible opportunity. We went home to watch the rugby game, which the South African Springboks lost terribly, but we continued our celebrations without letting it get us down too much. The braai we had that night was SO fun! So much of their family came, many from right down the street, but some from up to 45 minutes away, just to meet us and spend the night, once again, eating, drinking, talking, dancing, and of course karaokeing into the morning hours. I spent the night floating around, talking to various members of the family, but I found it really interesting to talk to the group of younger boy cousins, all around my age. We talked about music, movies, their impressions of what America is like (they admitted the only information they had they got from movies), my own impressions of South Africa, and other random topics, and I really enjoyed myself. Megan and some of the older people were having some good talks about Barack Obama (people here LOVE to talk about him and know everything about what we think about him), and I definitely karaoked Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” while Megan moonwalked (or tried to). Donovan and I discovered our shared love (borderline obsessions) with Bob Marley, and proceeded to “karaoke” (there were no words on the screen, we just sang along to the music) to “Is This Love?” All in all, it was a great time.
Sunday morning, I awoke to the sweetest thing possible. At 5:30 am, Caitlyn decided to come upstairs, into our room, wake me up and climb into bed with me to snuggle. As much as I needed to sleep (I had two papers due Monday that I knew I’d be up all night writing), I couldn’t help but welcome it. The kids were so loving and affectionate, and really loved having us there and in the end, did not want us to leave. By the time Sunday came around, we were already christened their “big sisters”, and they kept asking why we had to leave and when we were coming back. Gadija kept calling Caitlyn and telling her we needed our sleep, but this only invited Darren to also crawl up into my bed and snuggle, kicking Caitlyn out and over to Megan’s bed. One of my favorite things about Darren was the fact that he had this one move, Legends of the Sea, which he was COMPLETELY obsessed with. He would watch it once in the morning, and then at least once, if not more in the afternoon and evening. I think he watched it a total of 5 or 6 times in the span of Saturday and Sunday, and was able to drag me over with him maybe 2 of those times to watch snippets of it. He was also in love with karate, and thus, Kung Foo Panda (the movie), and also WWE wrestling, which totally reminded me of my little brother, who used to be obsessed with wrestling as well. I thoroughly impressed Darren with my (limited) knowledge of some of the wrestler’s names and key moves, so I have my bro Caelun to thank for that. ☺ We spent the afternoon cooking all kinds of amazing food with Gadija, including Malva pudding (this stuff is AMAZING, like the best cake-like stuff drenched in homemade custard…YES!) and Cook Sisters, which are kind of like donuts with coconut and goodness. She made us so much wonderful food (even though we were both vegetarians, which she accommodated wonderfully), and everything was from scratch. I was basically in awe. Some of the younger cousins and Darren and I had an intense soccer match that afternoon (with a completely deflated ball with a gaping hole in it), and spent the afternoon playing different random games, ending with the three boys attempting to explain and show me how to play cricket, which was really entertaining. We then brought all of the glorious food over to Gadija’s mother’s house, where we quickly met more family and ate so much before we had to head over to the buses and say our goodbyes. It was so sad, but Megan and I agreed we are definitely going back, because it is only a very easy train ride away. And we didn’t leave empty-handed either. Gadija sent us both home with Tupperware containers full of portions of the food we had just eaten (she told me it was a snack for the morning hours when I’d be up writing my paper that night), and a gift bag of presents representing South Africa, including a baseball cap and water bottle, stickers of the South African flag, Knick Knacks (amazing Cheeto-like South African snacks) and an assortment of other snacks she deemed typically South African. They told us that we were the first students they had ever hosted, and that based on their experiences with us, they wanted to do it again at every possible opportunity, which made me feel really good. Overall, it was a weekend I will never forget.
One of the most interesting things I took away from this was an increased real-world (as opposed to academic) understanding of the effects of apartheid and racial tensions that still exist. I mean, you can read all the books and write all the research papers you want on the topic, but nothing beats actually being right in the middle of it all and seeing it manifested in real people. It makes it quite tangible and gives it a face. There is still a lot of serious strain on the relations between coloreds and blacks. There are a lot of stereotypes and misjudgments that exist on both sides of the others. Even before I left for Oceanview, some of my black South African friends were joking asking me why I would ever want to go there, and that they would be scared to show their faces there, but I think there was some truth behind their jokes. Namely, some of the colored people (especially the older generations who really lived during apartheid) are angry at the state of the country, and blame a lot of it on the new black government. Their argument is that under apartheid, they lived much better than they are living now. This is of course, because they were given privileged status because they were lighter in complexion than blacks. But, and I think very misguidedly, they take these grievances and warp them to become evidence for their statements of blacks being incompetent and unable to run the country efficiently. Some even go so far as to racistly claim that blacks are lazy, incompetent and stupid, and claim that they would rather go back to the apartheid system rather than live as they are now. This was pretty shocking to me actually, and Bones (the LEAP coordinator), who I am becoming increasingly good friends with, kind of had to talk me through understanding this because I couldn’t wrap my mind around it. My question was this: is there absolutely no sense of national South African unity or identity, because if there were any inkling of that, how could one ever wish upon their fellow citizens a return to the egregious treatment that was the typical black person’s experience under apartheid? I still don’t fully understand it conceptually (and maybe that is just due to my own biases and education and personality), but I do see the simplistic logic in it, despite how self-interested I think it is and how much I disagree with it. Life, for colored people, was hands-down better then the situation now, so why, as self-interested rational beings, would they not want a return to that system that gave them special status and benefited them over others, thus allowing them more opportunity to thrive and succeed? Now that blacks are allowed to be on the same level as them, there is more competition for jobs and housing, schools are more crowded and the education system more burdened, along with other social issues that they point out as “flaws” in the new government. I was to put it out there also that my family did not personally hold any of these sentiments, but were very good about taking the time to explain them to us and give us both sides.
My counter-argument bases around one thing: time. Apartheid only ended a little over 10 years ago. How can one expect a country where these glaringly obvious racist and inhumane ways were seen as normal and were so ingrained in society to change immediately over to an egalitarian, liberal democratic society immediately? These things take great amounts of time, because what actually needs to be changed is the psyche of people, which is an extremely difficult task. The way people internalize information and their thought processes, actions and feelings need reform, so you can’t expect all the kinks to be worked out in such a short amount of time. Of course, some people may feel like they are sacrificing some personal comforts and maybe even their lives for the cause, but if they had any sense of caring about the future generations, they would realize what they perceive as suffering is a necessary aspect of this total revolution currently being undergone in their country of South Africa. Therefore, I don’t think it is the time for them to abandon their brothers and sisters (whether they be black, white, colored, whatever), but to band together to improve the current conditions and situation and get through it together, knowing it is going to get better along the way. South Africa has come unimaginable leaps and bounds in this past 15 years, and the spirit must be kept alive if it is to continue on that path.
Anyway, those are just my personal insights on what I saw and experienced. Sorry it turned out so long! Hope you all are doing well, and are enjoying reading my lengthy babbling known as blogging ☺
I was really excited to meet my family but also a little nervous of course, but I really couldn’t have gotten a better one! Another CIEE student, Megan, and I stayed with the Bowman family. The parents, Donovan and Gadija, were a young couple of the sweetest disposition. They had two kids, Caitlyn (3 years old) and Darren (6 years old), who were so cute and ecstatic that we were there to stay with them. They also had the cutest little dog, Sandy, and a very nice house that they opened up to us with so much warmth and welcome.
We first arrived on Friday night to have dinner in the local school’s auditorium. There was a huge feast set up with music, big tables, so much food, and entertainment as well. Each family was sitting at a table, eagerly holding up a number (which we students had all been assigned earlier) waiting to connect with the students who would be staying with them. We all made our way to our new families, and sat down to enjoy a great dinner and some introductory conversations with our families. From the start, I knew we were going to get along so well with our family, they were so laid back and so enthusiastic to ask us questions, answer our questions, know all about our lives and also have some good discussion about important topics. Oceanview has a lot of problems with the youth dropping out of school, having drug or alcohol problems, and gang activity, but they are very proactive about attempting alter this path. They have dance, singing, and other talent-centered programs which get the kids doing something that they are passionate about, but also keeps them busy and off of the streets, not permitting them the opportunity to even get involved in the negative activities that occur there. So at the dinner, we had some of those kids perform for us, and it was extremely enjoyable. You could tell from the vibe the performances gave off that they had worked SO hard on their songs and routines and were very proud to share their talents with us.
From the dinner, our family took us to Donovan’s parent’s house, where the kids were fast asleep on the couches. Because they were passed out, the four of us made the executive decision to leave the kids at their grandma’s house, and we proceeded to go out to a party in Simonstown. Under the apartheid regime’s Group Areas Act, certain areas of land and cities or towns were designated solely for whites. Despite the fact that blacks or coloreds may have been living on this land for generations, forced removals occurred where they were made to abandon their homes and lives that they knew to be relocated to areas that were acceptable for them to live in, and were “black” or “colored” areas specifically. Often, families were made to move from areas where soil was fertile with pleasant climates and other favorable conditions to dry, dirt-filled towns they would have never chosen to move to on their own accord. The significance of Simonstown in this situation is a majority of the people who live in Oceanview today were those who were forcibly removed from their homes in Simonstown. Therefore, many of them have feelings of nostalgia for their former homes and some even resent Oceanview, citing various complaints that make it less desirable than Simonstown. Anyway, so we went to this random charity dance party in Simonstown, where people bring their own bottles of whatever alcohol they prefer, and lots of snacks or food, sit at a table, and drink, dance, and karaoke the night away. It turns out it was a costume party, and all the people there were dressed in school uniforms. There was a vast mixture of people there, some old, some young, but I guess most of the people were staff from a hospital in the area. It was such a great time, Megan and I, along with a couple other CIEE students whose families brought them as well, definitely karaoked to Britney Spears…haha. We also had the chance to have some pretty deep conversations about various topics, which I really enjoyed.
The next day, on Saturday, we spent the morning getting to know the family and being introduced to the kids. Darren immediately took a strong liking to me, which might have been due to the fact that I had brought 3 little squishy USC balls (a football, soccer ball, and one we later deemed to be a volleyball) for them as presents...first impressions are KEY. We spent the morning playing various random games with them before we started our day. Our family took us to this gemstone factory where a few members of the family worked, and Donovan used to work, and it was really interesting. They had all the big machinery there, and Donovan taught us a little about the process through which the rocks go and showed us some of the behind the scenes stuff. The products they were selling were gorgeous, and it was a fun time. Then we went off to the grocery store to get all the supplies for the braai (BBQ) we were about to have that night. Darren and I had a ball at the grocery store. He spent most of the time riding piggy-back style (he was really light so it didn’t hurt too bad) and we invented this game he called “plus.” In this game, I would give him two numbers, and he would add them together and give me the answer. Who knew the kid would love practicing his math facts so much? We then moved on to “take away”, which was a little more challenging, but he still got most of it. For the rest of the trip, I was constantly begged with pleading eyes, “can we play plus please?” It was so sweet. Megan also taught him one of those hand-clapping/ jive-like games that I also knew, and that alternated in demand with “plus” as well at every possible opportunity. We went home to watch the rugby game, which the South African Springboks lost terribly, but we continued our celebrations without letting it get us down too much. The braai we had that night was SO fun! So much of their family came, many from right down the street, but some from up to 45 minutes away, just to meet us and spend the night, once again, eating, drinking, talking, dancing, and of course karaokeing into the morning hours. I spent the night floating around, talking to various members of the family, but I found it really interesting to talk to the group of younger boy cousins, all around my age. We talked about music, movies, their impressions of what America is like (they admitted the only information they had they got from movies), my own impressions of South Africa, and other random topics, and I really enjoyed myself. Megan and some of the older people were having some good talks about Barack Obama (people here LOVE to talk about him and know everything about what we think about him), and I definitely karaoked Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” while Megan moonwalked (or tried to). Donovan and I discovered our shared love (borderline obsessions) with Bob Marley, and proceeded to “karaoke” (there were no words on the screen, we just sang along to the music) to “Is This Love?” All in all, it was a great time.
Sunday morning, I awoke to the sweetest thing possible. At 5:30 am, Caitlyn decided to come upstairs, into our room, wake me up and climb into bed with me to snuggle. As much as I needed to sleep (I had two papers due Monday that I knew I’d be up all night writing), I couldn’t help but welcome it. The kids were so loving and affectionate, and really loved having us there and in the end, did not want us to leave. By the time Sunday came around, we were already christened their “big sisters”, and they kept asking why we had to leave and when we were coming back. Gadija kept calling Caitlyn and telling her we needed our sleep, but this only invited Darren to also crawl up into my bed and snuggle, kicking Caitlyn out and over to Megan’s bed. One of my favorite things about Darren was the fact that he had this one move, Legends of the Sea, which he was COMPLETELY obsessed with. He would watch it once in the morning, and then at least once, if not more in the afternoon and evening. I think he watched it a total of 5 or 6 times in the span of Saturday and Sunday, and was able to drag me over with him maybe 2 of those times to watch snippets of it. He was also in love with karate, and thus, Kung Foo Panda (the movie), and also WWE wrestling, which totally reminded me of my little brother, who used to be obsessed with wrestling as well. I thoroughly impressed Darren with my (limited) knowledge of some of the wrestler’s names and key moves, so I have my bro Caelun to thank for that. ☺ We spent the afternoon cooking all kinds of amazing food with Gadija, including Malva pudding (this stuff is AMAZING, like the best cake-like stuff drenched in homemade custard…YES!) and Cook Sisters, which are kind of like donuts with coconut and goodness. She made us so much wonderful food (even though we were both vegetarians, which she accommodated wonderfully), and everything was from scratch. I was basically in awe. Some of the younger cousins and Darren and I had an intense soccer match that afternoon (with a completely deflated ball with a gaping hole in it), and spent the afternoon playing different random games, ending with the three boys attempting to explain and show me how to play cricket, which was really entertaining. We then brought all of the glorious food over to Gadija’s mother’s house, where we quickly met more family and ate so much before we had to head over to the buses and say our goodbyes. It was so sad, but Megan and I agreed we are definitely going back, because it is only a very easy train ride away. And we didn’t leave empty-handed either. Gadija sent us both home with Tupperware containers full of portions of the food we had just eaten (she told me it was a snack for the morning hours when I’d be up writing my paper that night), and a gift bag of presents representing South Africa, including a baseball cap and water bottle, stickers of the South African flag, Knick Knacks (amazing Cheeto-like South African snacks) and an assortment of other snacks she deemed typically South African. They told us that we were the first students they had ever hosted, and that based on their experiences with us, they wanted to do it again at every possible opportunity, which made me feel really good. Overall, it was a weekend I will never forget.
One of the most interesting things I took away from this was an increased real-world (as opposed to academic) understanding of the effects of apartheid and racial tensions that still exist. I mean, you can read all the books and write all the research papers you want on the topic, but nothing beats actually being right in the middle of it all and seeing it manifested in real people. It makes it quite tangible and gives it a face. There is still a lot of serious strain on the relations between coloreds and blacks. There are a lot of stereotypes and misjudgments that exist on both sides of the others. Even before I left for Oceanview, some of my black South African friends were joking asking me why I would ever want to go there, and that they would be scared to show their faces there, but I think there was some truth behind their jokes. Namely, some of the colored people (especially the older generations who really lived during apartheid) are angry at the state of the country, and blame a lot of it on the new black government. Their argument is that under apartheid, they lived much better than they are living now. This is of course, because they were given privileged status because they were lighter in complexion than blacks. But, and I think very misguidedly, they take these grievances and warp them to become evidence for their statements of blacks being incompetent and unable to run the country efficiently. Some even go so far as to racistly claim that blacks are lazy, incompetent and stupid, and claim that they would rather go back to the apartheid system rather than live as they are now. This was pretty shocking to me actually, and Bones (the LEAP coordinator), who I am becoming increasingly good friends with, kind of had to talk me through understanding this because I couldn’t wrap my mind around it. My question was this: is there absolutely no sense of national South African unity or identity, because if there were any inkling of that, how could one ever wish upon their fellow citizens a return to the egregious treatment that was the typical black person’s experience under apartheid? I still don’t fully understand it conceptually (and maybe that is just due to my own biases and education and personality), but I do see the simplistic logic in it, despite how self-interested I think it is and how much I disagree with it. Life, for colored people, was hands-down better then the situation now, so why, as self-interested rational beings, would they not want a return to that system that gave them special status and benefited them over others, thus allowing them more opportunity to thrive and succeed? Now that blacks are allowed to be on the same level as them, there is more competition for jobs and housing, schools are more crowded and the education system more burdened, along with other social issues that they point out as “flaws” in the new government. I was to put it out there also that my family did not personally hold any of these sentiments, but were very good about taking the time to explain them to us and give us both sides.
My counter-argument bases around one thing: time. Apartheid only ended a little over 10 years ago. How can one expect a country where these glaringly obvious racist and inhumane ways were seen as normal and were so ingrained in society to change immediately over to an egalitarian, liberal democratic society immediately? These things take great amounts of time, because what actually needs to be changed is the psyche of people, which is an extremely difficult task. The way people internalize information and their thought processes, actions and feelings need reform, so you can’t expect all the kinks to be worked out in such a short amount of time. Of course, some people may feel like they are sacrificing some personal comforts and maybe even their lives for the cause, but if they had any sense of caring about the future generations, they would realize what they perceive as suffering is a necessary aspect of this total revolution currently being undergone in their country of South Africa. Therefore, I don’t think it is the time for them to abandon their brothers and sisters (whether they be black, white, colored, whatever), but to band together to improve the current conditions and situation and get through it together, knowing it is going to get better along the way. South Africa has come unimaginable leaps and bounds in this past 15 years, and the spirit must be kept alive if it is to continue on that path.
Anyway, those are just my personal insights on what I saw and experienced. Sorry it turned out so long! Hope you all are doing well, and are enjoying reading my lengthy babbling known as blogging ☺
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Robben Island, Desmond Tutu, and stormy weather..oh my!
It has been awhile since my last post, but things have just been crazy busy recently and I haven’t had very much time to sit down and write. I’ve still been having the time of my life here, and learning and experiencing so much with every day that comes. I’ll just recap some of the most exciting things that have been happening as of late.
I saw Desmond Tutu speak at my school! It was incredible, even just for sitting in the same room as a man who has had such an immense impact on South African history and post-apartheid thought. In case some might not be as familiar with him, he is an Archbishop, has won the Nobel Peace Prize, and was the chairman of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission in South Africa, which was a worldwide movement following the end of apartheid to overcome the bloodiness and hatred of the past made to foster nationwide healing through uncovering truth and granting forgiveness. In exchange for perpetrators coming forward to confess their crimes and showing repentance, they would be granted amnesty if deemed by the commission to be expressing the whole truth and nothing but the truth, and the actions were politically motivated and not excessive. This system has many flaws in itself, including difficulties in ensuring the “whole truth” is being told, with displaying “true” remorse, victims feeling unsatisfied or cheated, etc. but largely, it has been a fairly effective path of moving on and pressing forward into the future as opposed to getting hung up on the past, which cannot be changed. The occasion for Tutu’s presence was a debate among many other intellectuals, former political prisoners and human rights activists from Liberia, Congo, and South Africa. The debate was entitled “Speak Truth to Power”, which centered on Kerry Kenndy’s book of the same name, and she headed the debate. It was all about not just sitting back and accepting what those in powerful positions decide to impose upon the masses, and making sure that the public is problematizing and questioning each action and policy being passed in their country. It was really interesting, and a lot of the speakers ended up emphasizing the importance of the youth not being passive but getting involved in what goes on in their country and government, and how we are the ones who hold the key to change now and for future generations. I enjoyed it, especially since as Desmond Tutu was walking in, I was sitting in the aisle seat and he looked me right in the eye and greeted me! I was expecting it to be a momentous occasion and to not even be able to get in to see him, but it was in an intimate venue and felt very personal. Apparently he comes to UCT a lot, so for many South African students, it was no big deal.
Another amazing experience we had was going to Robben Island, which served as an isolated prison during apartheid, especially for political prisoners. It is probably most famous for being the place where Nelson Mandela was incarcerated for 18 of the 27 years of his life he spent in prison. We toured around the island on a bus with a very lively and knowledgeable tour guide, who showed us many of the sites, including the mass leper graves (the island was previously used as a spot of exile for lepers where thousands died and never received proper burials nor even had their bodies identified, and when it was to become a prison, they simply built on top of the thousands of corpses); the lime quarry where prisoners were forced to do hard labor for hours, and which also ended up as a place where great minds would debate and conspire, formulating the birth of a revolution while out of earshot of the guards; and the schools, mosques and churches that the people currently living on the island frequent. One of the sites that had the biggest impact on me was this little one room flat, far away from everything else, where Robert Sobukwe, considered during apartheid to be one of the greatest threats to their institution of government and also seen as one of the leading inspirations for the anti-apartheid movement was kept for years in complete isolation until his death. He was the founder of the Pan-Africanist Congress, and led the famed Pass-Law protest, where thousands of blacks burned their hated passbooks that the white government mandated they carry at all time to identify that they were black and regulate where they were allowed to go to regulate their movement and tell if their taxes and fees were all in order (which they often weren’t and this landed many in jail for extended periods of times). It was basically another tool to dehumanize and enumerate blacks, making them seem more like possessions or dogs to be categorized and kept watch on. This protest led to the devastatingly infamous Sharpeville Massacre as well, where police opened fire on hundreds of protesters, killing many (mostly due to gun shots to the BACK-indicating that victims were running away, not pursuing or acting aggressive toward the police). I recommend you Google or Wikipedia any of these terms if you’d like to know more about them, or just ask me. Anyway, what really got me was the way the prison guards were instructed to treat him. It was as if he did not even exist; was nothing more than a window through which to gaze. They were under strict and impenetrable orders to not say a single word to him, nor even acknowledge his existence in the slightest way. Two guards were instructed to stand outside of his house, and if either one so much as glanced at him as if he were more than air, the other was compelled to tell their superiors, and that person would be terminated from their job, and severely punished. I can’t even imagine the dehumanization that he must have felt, and I don’t know how he didn’t go insane under such trying conditions. The strategy of the government was obvious: to completely destroy and break his spirit to ensure that the threat of even the idea of him was totally obliterated. But they had to keep him alive, to avoid the major backlash that would have occurred if word got out that they had killed him or let him die. So instead they let his soul rot away, and another casualty of the revolution was tallied. We also saw Nelson Mandela’s cell, which was powerful, but felt extremely touristy and almost cheapened by the manner in which people were flocking to it talking pictures and how they were acting. We were also rushed, and I would have preferred to have a more individualized and personal experience there, even just a few minutes to quietly reflect, but that wasn’t possible at the time. One of the other more powerful moments for me was the boat ride over to Robben Island, just thinking about how Mandela and all the others must have felt when they took this journey across the ocean; how confused and scared they must have been inside but how courageous and inspiring they were for being able to “speak truth to power” (as the debate discussed earlier suggested) and put their lives on the line for something they so strongly believed in with endless selflessness and conviction, sacrificing themselves to the revolution. That was a unique and reflective experience for me, and it got me thinking about what cause I live for; what it is that I would lay down everything⎯family, friends, comfort, physical and mental stability and wellness, etc.⎯to fight for. I am still figuring that out, by the way, but I have some strong indications and possibilities churning around in my head.
I still need to write about so much, including my homestay this past weekend in a colored township called Oceanview, but I am going to save that for the next post, which I promise will come soon. This one is already long enough as it is, so I’ll break it up into two parts. It is currently torrentially storming and hailing!!! Until later…much love and peace!
I saw Desmond Tutu speak at my school! It was incredible, even just for sitting in the same room as a man who has had such an immense impact on South African history and post-apartheid thought. In case some might not be as familiar with him, he is an Archbishop, has won the Nobel Peace Prize, and was the chairman of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission in South Africa, which was a worldwide movement following the end of apartheid to overcome the bloodiness and hatred of the past made to foster nationwide healing through uncovering truth and granting forgiveness. In exchange for perpetrators coming forward to confess their crimes and showing repentance, they would be granted amnesty if deemed by the commission to be expressing the whole truth and nothing but the truth, and the actions were politically motivated and not excessive. This system has many flaws in itself, including difficulties in ensuring the “whole truth” is being told, with displaying “true” remorse, victims feeling unsatisfied or cheated, etc. but largely, it has been a fairly effective path of moving on and pressing forward into the future as opposed to getting hung up on the past, which cannot be changed. The occasion for Tutu’s presence was a debate among many other intellectuals, former political prisoners and human rights activists from Liberia, Congo, and South Africa. The debate was entitled “Speak Truth to Power”, which centered on Kerry Kenndy’s book of the same name, and she headed the debate. It was all about not just sitting back and accepting what those in powerful positions decide to impose upon the masses, and making sure that the public is problematizing and questioning each action and policy being passed in their country. It was really interesting, and a lot of the speakers ended up emphasizing the importance of the youth not being passive but getting involved in what goes on in their country and government, and how we are the ones who hold the key to change now and for future generations. I enjoyed it, especially since as Desmond Tutu was walking in, I was sitting in the aisle seat and he looked me right in the eye and greeted me! I was expecting it to be a momentous occasion and to not even be able to get in to see him, but it was in an intimate venue and felt very personal. Apparently he comes to UCT a lot, so for many South African students, it was no big deal.
Another amazing experience we had was going to Robben Island, which served as an isolated prison during apartheid, especially for political prisoners. It is probably most famous for being the place where Nelson Mandela was incarcerated for 18 of the 27 years of his life he spent in prison. We toured around the island on a bus with a very lively and knowledgeable tour guide, who showed us many of the sites, including the mass leper graves (the island was previously used as a spot of exile for lepers where thousands died and never received proper burials nor even had their bodies identified, and when it was to become a prison, they simply built on top of the thousands of corpses); the lime quarry where prisoners were forced to do hard labor for hours, and which also ended up as a place where great minds would debate and conspire, formulating the birth of a revolution while out of earshot of the guards; and the schools, mosques and churches that the people currently living on the island frequent. One of the sites that had the biggest impact on me was this little one room flat, far away from everything else, where Robert Sobukwe, considered during apartheid to be one of the greatest threats to their institution of government and also seen as one of the leading inspirations for the anti-apartheid movement was kept for years in complete isolation until his death. He was the founder of the Pan-Africanist Congress, and led the famed Pass-Law protest, where thousands of blacks burned their hated passbooks that the white government mandated they carry at all time to identify that they were black and regulate where they were allowed to go to regulate their movement and tell if their taxes and fees were all in order (which they often weren’t and this landed many in jail for extended periods of times). It was basically another tool to dehumanize and enumerate blacks, making them seem more like possessions or dogs to be categorized and kept watch on. This protest led to the devastatingly infamous Sharpeville Massacre as well, where police opened fire on hundreds of protesters, killing many (mostly due to gun shots to the BACK-indicating that victims were running away, not pursuing or acting aggressive toward the police). I recommend you Google or Wikipedia any of these terms if you’d like to know more about them, or just ask me. Anyway, what really got me was the way the prison guards were instructed to treat him. It was as if he did not even exist; was nothing more than a window through which to gaze. They were under strict and impenetrable orders to not say a single word to him, nor even acknowledge his existence in the slightest way. Two guards were instructed to stand outside of his house, and if either one so much as glanced at him as if he were more than air, the other was compelled to tell their superiors, and that person would be terminated from their job, and severely punished. I can’t even imagine the dehumanization that he must have felt, and I don’t know how he didn’t go insane under such trying conditions. The strategy of the government was obvious: to completely destroy and break his spirit to ensure that the threat of even the idea of him was totally obliterated. But they had to keep him alive, to avoid the major backlash that would have occurred if word got out that they had killed him or let him die. So instead they let his soul rot away, and another casualty of the revolution was tallied. We also saw Nelson Mandela’s cell, which was powerful, but felt extremely touristy and almost cheapened by the manner in which people were flocking to it talking pictures and how they were acting. We were also rushed, and I would have preferred to have a more individualized and personal experience there, even just a few minutes to quietly reflect, but that wasn’t possible at the time. One of the other more powerful moments for me was the boat ride over to Robben Island, just thinking about how Mandela and all the others must have felt when they took this journey across the ocean; how confused and scared they must have been inside but how courageous and inspiring they were for being able to “speak truth to power” (as the debate discussed earlier suggested) and put their lives on the line for something they so strongly believed in with endless selflessness and conviction, sacrificing themselves to the revolution. That was a unique and reflective experience for me, and it got me thinking about what cause I live for; what it is that I would lay down everything⎯family, friends, comfort, physical and mental stability and wellness, etc.⎯to fight for. I am still figuring that out, by the way, but I have some strong indications and possibilities churning around in my head.
I still need to write about so much, including my homestay this past weekend in a colored township called Oceanview, but I am going to save that for the next post, which I promise will come soon. This one is already long enough as it is, so I’ll break it up into two parts. It is currently torrentially storming and hailing!!! Until later…much love and peace!
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
LEAP school and South African education
So this week, we started going to the various volunteering sites that we will be helping out throughout the year. There are several choices of various organizations to volunteer with, including the Ark, a refuge for drug addicts, school for children, home for orphans, rehabilitation center, and so much more all in one location; the TB hospital, where kids aged from a couple days old to mid-teens⎯and also a few adults, come for treatment for various stages and strains of the Tuberculosis disease; and schools and sports programs at children’s homes. However, the organization I chose to volunteer with is called the LEAP School of Science and Math, which is a surprisingly well-developed and structured school where children pay a yearly school fee, wear school uniforms, and have (this is of course relatively speaking) a fair amount of resources at their disposal, including some computers, desks, supplies, food, etc.
I am positive a lot of you might be wondering why, out of all these options, I might have picked to donate my time to such a, by comparison, seemingly well-to-do school when there are so many schools especially in the townships of South Africa that have little more than the ground and a stick to write their lessons with nor an adequate building other than a small shack or a mud hut. My answer to this has a lot to do with my recent train of thoughts and manner in which I am trying to formulate my understanding of this complex country and its even more perplexing history. The organizer of our involvement at the LEAP school, Bones, has really had a big impact in developing these concepts in my mind, and I honestly look up to and admire him very much for his openness, his philosophies on education, teaching, politics, and life within and also outside of South Africa. I would try to sum these thoughts up, but I feel it would only be a severe injustice, because hearing him speak with such passion, power and conviction is really more of an experience, and it does not lend itself very readily to brief summation. Therefore, I will just give a little of my thoughts, keeping in mind that I am drawing some of these beliefs and ideas from conversations with him, as well as has been current content and discussion in many of my classes.
Yes, it is true that South Africa has had a, for genuine lack of a more fitting word (and sorry for anyone offended by the bad language), but a seriously fucked up past. There is no other way to put it. Apartheid truly affected every human being in South Africa on the whole: mind, body, soul, spirit, socially, physically…on every level imaginable. I mean, just try to think for a minute that one day, the government decides that you can no longer live in your home, go to school where you do, ride certain buses, go in certain shops and areas, or even go to certain cities, solely on the basis of the color of your skin. Imagine the confusion, resentment, hatred, sorrow this would invoke towards the oppressors, and more devastatingly, upon oneself. Although apartheid has since been terminated, it is obvious that so many of the side effects it produced are still rearing their ugly heads⎯as is evident in a trip to the townships, in the separation that occurs at night clubs, in job and income disparities, etc. One of the systems though, that has been most tragically affected is the education system. Black students were forced to learn in what was considered the “Bantu education system”, whereby complete racial segregation occurred in all institutions of learning. The ideology behind this “Bantu education” was that blacks were culturally “different,” and therefore needed to be separated and educated in a “different” manner. Blacks went to black schools, and whites went to white schools. You can just envision the gross disparities that existed, given the governmental regime and its outlook on the situation, as well as the particulars of the apartheid laws, between a typical “black” school and any given “white” school. Thus, black education was, and frankly still is, far behind that of the privileged white education. For this reason, even now, more whites finish primary and secondary school, are accepted into university, and go on to further education and better job opportunities simply because they have had more opportunity to learn and grow and be intellectually stimulated at a more accelerated rate. Blacks were left behind in this process, and have not been given adequate resources, opportunities, and attention paid to correcting this injustice.
As shocking and egregious as this may seem and in reality is, there are a few different ways to approach dealing with this situation. One way is the victim approach: to sit around and feel sorry for the circumstances and for oneself, talking about how unfair it is, and how much blacks have been oppressed and kept down, and to sit around and wait for others (ie, the government, etc.) to come and change it. While this all is very true, I personally do not believe this to be the best way to go about it. The other way is the proactive approach: to say yes, we have been severely screwed over in our past, but what can we do to take a stand and create change in the system? How can we actively ensure that we are doing all we can to use what we have (however meager it might be) to get ahead on our own and succeed for ourselves? How can we morph and challenge the stereotypes and myths surrounding black education to change the direction that the system has existed in for so long and continues to operate within?
This is really what the LEAP school is all about: progressive action and working for positive change; not feeling sorry and shitty about the past inequities nor focusing on negativity, but instead on what we as a people, community, race, country can do for ourselves and stimulate and inspire in others to follow suit. Not only the system, but the workers within it as well; getting teachers excited about the changes and really loving teaching and coming up with new and innovative ways to teach that encompass all of the students without letting any fall through the cracks. This will prove an exceedingly difficult task, because as I have witnessed even in working in the Los Angeles School system, many teachers nowadays are only about getting tenure then going through the motions day after day, with hardly any deviation from the standardized CRAP curriculum and not teaching the material in a way that allows the students to relate to it and apply it to their own lives. LEAP is all about problematizing and reworking these ideas, and for this reason, I have been motivated with extreme passion to dedicate my time to better understanding and aiding in realizing this dream for the education system and the children of South Africa. The least I can do is to try to make a dent by bringing to the table my knowledge, ideas and resources in combination with those of my peers and others working at the school.
I came to South Africa with this certain mentality partially influenced by the western perceptions of Africa that I have discussed in my previous post, where a small part of me thought that I wanted to help “save” Africa, and work in these severely tragic and underdeveloped areas with destitute people. It is not to say that there is no value in this, nor that I won’t be spending some time doing that myself. But I just think there is so much more to Africa as a continent and South Africa as a country that we tend to overlook and that is overshadowed by theses negative associations. I see real, tangible change and straight-up revolution in what is going on at LEAP, and that is really what inspires me to no end. I wish my words could even begin to portray the extent of my feelings and excitement, but I fear instead my babbling may be cheapening it. Therefore, I will stop here, but I encourage anyone interested in what I am trying to convey and the topic at hand to email me with questions, comments, or anything, because this is something that I am truly exhilarated about and would love to talk to anyone about. Also you can click HERE to go to the LEAP school website, which unfortunately seems out of date, but nonetheless informative.
As I spend more time at the school, I hope to develop stronger feelings and opinions, and I will definitely keep you guys posted. As far as what I will actually be doing in my time at LEAP, we will be assigned 3-5 young children, grades 9-12, to partake in a mentor relationship, whereby we assist the children with schoolwork and project, sit in with them on their classes, participate in extracurricular activities, and sometime just hang out and be a presence in the child’s life, trying to get to know them on a more personal basis. It really is whatever you make of it and whatever you are willing to put into it. Most of the kids come from a township called Langa, and many of them travel very far distances to get to this school. It really is an incredible opportunity for these kids who otherwise would have nothing near the caliber of this school and its education system. It is not only a school focused on learning subjects, but is trying to make active, global, aware, conscious citizens out of the adolescents who matriculate through their doors. LEAP has a “code of conduct” for student, as one student today was explaining to us, that is more geared towards conduct for life, one rule including being “open-minded and willing to talk and discuss”, which this student explained is something that is culturally different and fairly difficult for her to come to terms with, but that she is accepting the challenge. It’s funny, when she mentioned that she was a little unsure and how much she liked the school’s code of conduct, I was expecting a shallow complaint such as not liking the school uniforms or the food, but instead I received that pieces of unexpectedly insightful commentary. Anyway, I said I would stop myself from going on and on, and here I am again. So…I’m sure I’ll be writing on this again soon. I look forward to any insight on this that anyone might have. Thanks, and much love.
I am positive a lot of you might be wondering why, out of all these options, I might have picked to donate my time to such a, by comparison, seemingly well-to-do school when there are so many schools especially in the townships of South Africa that have little more than the ground and a stick to write their lessons with nor an adequate building other than a small shack or a mud hut. My answer to this has a lot to do with my recent train of thoughts and manner in which I am trying to formulate my understanding of this complex country and its even more perplexing history. The organizer of our involvement at the LEAP school, Bones, has really had a big impact in developing these concepts in my mind, and I honestly look up to and admire him very much for his openness, his philosophies on education, teaching, politics, and life within and also outside of South Africa. I would try to sum these thoughts up, but I feel it would only be a severe injustice, because hearing him speak with such passion, power and conviction is really more of an experience, and it does not lend itself very readily to brief summation. Therefore, I will just give a little of my thoughts, keeping in mind that I am drawing some of these beliefs and ideas from conversations with him, as well as has been current content and discussion in many of my classes.
Yes, it is true that South Africa has had a, for genuine lack of a more fitting word (and sorry for anyone offended by the bad language), but a seriously fucked up past. There is no other way to put it. Apartheid truly affected every human being in South Africa on the whole: mind, body, soul, spirit, socially, physically…on every level imaginable. I mean, just try to think for a minute that one day, the government decides that you can no longer live in your home, go to school where you do, ride certain buses, go in certain shops and areas, or even go to certain cities, solely on the basis of the color of your skin. Imagine the confusion, resentment, hatred, sorrow this would invoke towards the oppressors, and more devastatingly, upon oneself. Although apartheid has since been terminated, it is obvious that so many of the side effects it produced are still rearing their ugly heads⎯as is evident in a trip to the townships, in the separation that occurs at night clubs, in job and income disparities, etc. One of the systems though, that has been most tragically affected is the education system. Black students were forced to learn in what was considered the “Bantu education system”, whereby complete racial segregation occurred in all institutions of learning. The ideology behind this “Bantu education” was that blacks were culturally “different,” and therefore needed to be separated and educated in a “different” manner. Blacks went to black schools, and whites went to white schools. You can just envision the gross disparities that existed, given the governmental regime and its outlook on the situation, as well as the particulars of the apartheid laws, between a typical “black” school and any given “white” school. Thus, black education was, and frankly still is, far behind that of the privileged white education. For this reason, even now, more whites finish primary and secondary school, are accepted into university, and go on to further education and better job opportunities simply because they have had more opportunity to learn and grow and be intellectually stimulated at a more accelerated rate. Blacks were left behind in this process, and have not been given adequate resources, opportunities, and attention paid to correcting this injustice.
As shocking and egregious as this may seem and in reality is, there are a few different ways to approach dealing with this situation. One way is the victim approach: to sit around and feel sorry for the circumstances and for oneself, talking about how unfair it is, and how much blacks have been oppressed and kept down, and to sit around and wait for others (ie, the government, etc.) to come and change it. While this all is very true, I personally do not believe this to be the best way to go about it. The other way is the proactive approach: to say yes, we have been severely screwed over in our past, but what can we do to take a stand and create change in the system? How can we actively ensure that we are doing all we can to use what we have (however meager it might be) to get ahead on our own and succeed for ourselves? How can we morph and challenge the stereotypes and myths surrounding black education to change the direction that the system has existed in for so long and continues to operate within?
This is really what the LEAP school is all about: progressive action and working for positive change; not feeling sorry and shitty about the past inequities nor focusing on negativity, but instead on what we as a people, community, race, country can do for ourselves and stimulate and inspire in others to follow suit. Not only the system, but the workers within it as well; getting teachers excited about the changes and really loving teaching and coming up with new and innovative ways to teach that encompass all of the students without letting any fall through the cracks. This will prove an exceedingly difficult task, because as I have witnessed even in working in the Los Angeles School system, many teachers nowadays are only about getting tenure then going through the motions day after day, with hardly any deviation from the standardized CRAP curriculum and not teaching the material in a way that allows the students to relate to it and apply it to their own lives. LEAP is all about problematizing and reworking these ideas, and for this reason, I have been motivated with extreme passion to dedicate my time to better understanding and aiding in realizing this dream for the education system and the children of South Africa. The least I can do is to try to make a dent by bringing to the table my knowledge, ideas and resources in combination with those of my peers and others working at the school.
I came to South Africa with this certain mentality partially influenced by the western perceptions of Africa that I have discussed in my previous post, where a small part of me thought that I wanted to help “save” Africa, and work in these severely tragic and underdeveloped areas with destitute people. It is not to say that there is no value in this, nor that I won’t be spending some time doing that myself. But I just think there is so much more to Africa as a continent and South Africa as a country that we tend to overlook and that is overshadowed by theses negative associations. I see real, tangible change and straight-up revolution in what is going on at LEAP, and that is really what inspires me to no end. I wish my words could even begin to portray the extent of my feelings and excitement, but I fear instead my babbling may be cheapening it. Therefore, I will stop here, but I encourage anyone interested in what I am trying to convey and the topic at hand to email me with questions, comments, or anything, because this is something that I am truly exhilarated about and would love to talk to anyone about. Also you can click HERE to go to the LEAP school website, which unfortunately seems out of date, but nonetheless informative.
As I spend more time at the school, I hope to develop stronger feelings and opinions, and I will definitely keep you guys posted. As far as what I will actually be doing in my time at LEAP, we will be assigned 3-5 young children, grades 9-12, to partake in a mentor relationship, whereby we assist the children with schoolwork and project, sit in with them on their classes, participate in extracurricular activities, and sometime just hang out and be a presence in the child’s life, trying to get to know them on a more personal basis. It really is whatever you make of it and whatever you are willing to put into it. Most of the kids come from a township called Langa, and many of them travel very far distances to get to this school. It really is an incredible opportunity for these kids who otherwise would have nothing near the caliber of this school and its education system. It is not only a school focused on learning subjects, but is trying to make active, global, aware, conscious citizens out of the adolescents who matriculate through their doors. LEAP has a “code of conduct” for student, as one student today was explaining to us, that is more geared towards conduct for life, one rule including being “open-minded and willing to talk and discuss”, which this student explained is something that is culturally different and fairly difficult for her to come to terms with, but that she is accepting the challenge. It’s funny, when she mentioned that she was a little unsure and how much she liked the school’s code of conduct, I was expecting a shallow complaint such as not liking the school uniforms or the food, but instead I received that pieces of unexpectedly insightful commentary. Anyway, I said I would stop myself from going on and on, and here I am again. So…I’m sure I’ll be writing on this again soon. I look forward to any insight on this that anyone might have. Thanks, and much love.
**Also, check out the new "Links I Love" part of my blog where I'll be posting links to sites that I find interesting or informative, and I just uploaded some more fun photos as well!
Monday, July 21, 2008
What exactly is "Africa?"
First of all, I just uploaded some of my pictures onto a Flikr account, so if you want to check them out, click on this link: http://www.flickr.com/photos/28725728@N07/
It’s been over a week now since I’ve gotten to South Africa, and it is already feeling like home. I have honestly been having the time of my life, and I can’t believe all of the things I have been so fortunate to experience already! I’ll just recap some of the major highlights of this past week.
The first five days of our trip were dedicated towards CIEE program orientation. During this, we stayed in a hotel on what is called the Waterfront, which was a pretty crazy experience in itself. Modeled after Fisherman’s Warf in San Francisco, you really could imagine this huge manifestation of western capitalism placed almost anywhere in the US. The architecture itself, as well as the choice of stores (Gucci, Crocs, Guess, Billabong, Subway…you name it, they probably have it) really screams what your intuition may want to consider the “anti-Africa”⎯everything the media and your sense tell you Africa is not. For the first couple days, we were all exclaiming how much it didn’t feel like we were in Africa at all. But I’d like to comment on those sentiments briefly. I was in a bar the other day, talking to a South African UCT student originally from Johannesburg. We were having some great conversation, and he asks me what I think of Cape Town so far. I told him I loved it, and so on, and he continues to ask me if I find it very westernized. Having just talked about this topic with many of my peers, I gave him my opinion, that it really bothered me to see something like the Waterfront Mall in all of its fancy glory, only to go a few more miles in any given direction and see the endless rows of unfathomable shacks making up the township communities. The injustices are just so blunt and crude, and it becomes very hard to stomach when you sit down to really think about it. It almost even validates the high crime rates and frequent muggings, because I know if I were living in one of those sickeningly impoverished squatter camps due to the government forcing all people into these secluded areas only because of skin color (as what happened under apartheid) and had to stare at these mansions with their private security guards and electric wires all along the perimeter, I would be vengeful and bitter as well. Anyway, he explained something very interesting to me. People, especially from the west, have a certain, very distinct perception about Africa. The media likes to portray it in a certain light, mostly of war-ravaged tribally divided countries, starving children with flies on their eyes, or warriors running around in loincloths with spears. But that is not necessarily what “Africa” is all about. It is impossible to even begin to sum up succinctly “Africa”, because it is an entire continent, of 47 distinct countries, each with its own unique culture, people, architecture, customs, etc. If you come to South Africa especially, to have that typical, western conceived “Africa” experience, then you will be sorely disappointed. Because one of the most intriguing aspects about South Africa, at least for me, is that it is, in fact, a first world and third world country simultaneously. There are elements of both sides clashing and converging and diverging every day, every hour you spend in this city. So yes, I can go to the Waterfront Mall and buy a Gucci dress, and go out to swanky bars every night, and then head over to the townships and help out in the one-room schools and visit the TB clinic where kids ranging from one day old to probably mid to late teens and watch them receive their treatment in the midst of a coughing fit⎯but this does not mean I should feel like I am not in the “real” Africa. The beauty of South Africa arises out of its intense complexity and paradoxical nature.
That’s my little first week insight for now. But as far as the touristy things we’ve done so far, some of the events you’ll see in the photos (which I will put descriptions on later) include: climbing Table Mountain!! Oh my gosh, I have never been so under-prepared for something in my entire LIFE! I wasn’t expecting to be climbing nearly vertical rock structures for two hours, and I brought NO WATER! Therefore, I almost passed out several times on the way up, it all the dehydration and soreness was SO worth the view and the experience! It was a huge rush to be at the top and the feeling of accomplishment was intense. We also took a tour around the Peninsula, which took us to several different destinations of extreme beauty. On that trip, we saw the penguins, which was a highlight of my life because I LOVE penguins so much! We also went to the Cape Nature Reserve, where we saw a baboon right in the middle of our path with a baby, and also to Cape Point and Cape of Good Hope, aka the most South-Western point of the African continent. That was also another amazing view…Cape Town is full of them! We also went to the township of Oceanview, where the community spirit rivals anything I’ve ever experienced, and they feed us, put on a talent show, and invited us into their communities with open arms. We will be returning back there to do a homestay for three days in August, and I am so excited.
School starts Monday, and we are all registered for classes and trying to figure out how to navigate our ways through our breathtaking campus. My housemates are all incredible, and we get along scarily well. There are 11 of us in total, and then 2 South African students who live with us as well. There is so much more to tell, but I will cut this off here. We are off to a Kaiser Chiefs vs. Manchester United soccer game in about an hour, and can't wait!!!! Love and miss you all, thanks for reading.
It’s been over a week now since I’ve gotten to South Africa, and it is already feeling like home. I have honestly been having the time of my life, and I can’t believe all of the things I have been so fortunate to experience already! I’ll just recap some of the major highlights of this past week.
The first five days of our trip were dedicated towards CIEE program orientation. During this, we stayed in a hotel on what is called the Waterfront, which was a pretty crazy experience in itself. Modeled after Fisherman’s Warf in San Francisco, you really could imagine this huge manifestation of western capitalism placed almost anywhere in the US. The architecture itself, as well as the choice of stores (Gucci, Crocs, Guess, Billabong, Subway…you name it, they probably have it) really screams what your intuition may want to consider the “anti-Africa”⎯everything the media and your sense tell you Africa is not. For the first couple days, we were all exclaiming how much it didn’t feel like we were in Africa at all. But I’d like to comment on those sentiments briefly. I was in a bar the other day, talking to a South African UCT student originally from Johannesburg. We were having some great conversation, and he asks me what I think of Cape Town so far. I told him I loved it, and so on, and he continues to ask me if I find it very westernized. Having just talked about this topic with many of my peers, I gave him my opinion, that it really bothered me to see something like the Waterfront Mall in all of its fancy glory, only to go a few more miles in any given direction and see the endless rows of unfathomable shacks making up the township communities. The injustices are just so blunt and crude, and it becomes very hard to stomach when you sit down to really think about it. It almost even validates the high crime rates and frequent muggings, because I know if I were living in one of those sickeningly impoverished squatter camps due to the government forcing all people into these secluded areas only because of skin color (as what happened under apartheid) and had to stare at these mansions with their private security guards and electric wires all along the perimeter, I would be vengeful and bitter as well. Anyway, he explained something very interesting to me. People, especially from the west, have a certain, very distinct perception about Africa. The media likes to portray it in a certain light, mostly of war-ravaged tribally divided countries, starving children with flies on their eyes, or warriors running around in loincloths with spears. But that is not necessarily what “Africa” is all about. It is impossible to even begin to sum up succinctly “Africa”, because it is an entire continent, of 47 distinct countries, each with its own unique culture, people, architecture, customs, etc. If you come to South Africa especially, to have that typical, western conceived “Africa” experience, then you will be sorely disappointed. Because one of the most intriguing aspects about South Africa, at least for me, is that it is, in fact, a first world and third world country simultaneously. There are elements of both sides clashing and converging and diverging every day, every hour you spend in this city. So yes, I can go to the Waterfront Mall and buy a Gucci dress, and go out to swanky bars every night, and then head over to the townships and help out in the one-room schools and visit the TB clinic where kids ranging from one day old to probably mid to late teens and watch them receive their treatment in the midst of a coughing fit⎯but this does not mean I should feel like I am not in the “real” Africa. The beauty of South Africa arises out of its intense complexity and paradoxical nature.
That’s my little first week insight for now. But as far as the touristy things we’ve done so far, some of the events you’ll see in the photos (which I will put descriptions on later) include: climbing Table Mountain!! Oh my gosh, I have never been so under-prepared for something in my entire LIFE! I wasn’t expecting to be climbing nearly vertical rock structures for two hours, and I brought NO WATER! Therefore, I almost passed out several times on the way up, it all the dehydration and soreness was SO worth the view and the experience! It was a huge rush to be at the top and the feeling of accomplishment was intense. We also took a tour around the Peninsula, which took us to several different destinations of extreme beauty. On that trip, we saw the penguins, which was a highlight of my life because I LOVE penguins so much! We also went to the Cape Nature Reserve, where we saw a baboon right in the middle of our path with a baby, and also to Cape Point and Cape of Good Hope, aka the most South-Western point of the African continent. That was also another amazing view…Cape Town is full of them! We also went to the township of Oceanview, where the community spirit rivals anything I’ve ever experienced, and they feed us, put on a talent show, and invited us into their communities with open arms. We will be returning back there to do a homestay for three days in August, and I am so excited.
School starts Monday, and we are all registered for classes and trying to figure out how to navigate our ways through our breathtaking campus. My housemates are all incredible, and we get along scarily well. There are 11 of us in total, and then 2 South African students who live with us as well. There is so much more to tell, but I will cut this off here. We are off to a Kaiser Chiefs vs. Manchester United soccer game in about an hour, and can't wait!!!! Love and miss you all, thanks for reading.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
The "VISA TERROR"!!!!
Two vastly different sets of words come to mind when attempting to communicate my initial experience with my new home, South Africa.
The first set could easily include any of the following: Disastrous. Pathetic. Frightening. Hyperventilation. Maybe looking back it was not as bad as it seemed, but at the time, I sure felt each of these emotions to a strong degree. To start off, even before Cape Town contact, my flights were a mess. For some reason, my travel agent thought it a good idea to leave me 40 minutes to navigate the Detroit airport all the way to my plane taking off to Amsterdam, and then 50 minutes to confusedly scamper around the Amsterdam airport to find my flight to Cape Town. In short: not cool. Any delays in my flights whatsoever could prove tragic to my fragile schedule. And of course, there were delays. Why not, right? First, on the way in to Detroit, there was too much rain and fog to land, leaving to pilot to announce a 30 minute pause in our landing while we circled above our destination. Luckily, I made that flight with a little help along the way, but only to encounter another obstacle. Apparently, there is a machine underneath each plane that tows it backwards so that it can make a straight shoot off on the runway…but not on our plane! Our machine was “unexpectedly malfunctioning”, and wouldn’t pull the plane backwards. Another 40 minutes passed by, the machine was replaced, and we were on our way. All would have been simple if Amsterdam didn’t have a seemingly hundred-something mile runway that we had to taxi down for a good twenty minutes to get from where we landed to the actual airport. After exiting the plane, I barely had a chance to catch my breath before dropping to a dead run, searching fruitlessly for an airport employee, a board with flight postings…anything that would save me from being swallowed up by this completely foreign airport that appeared to be trying to make my life that much harder. With some help from a British man on his way to Ethiopia and a candy shop girl, I was racing off to my gate that was as far away from where I was as possible, politely yet hurriedly shuffling past happy couples on the people movers, trying not to bowl anyone over in my race to the finish. I pulled up, sticky with sweat and panting, feeling hives about to break out and cover my face, only to be greeted by a smiley Dutch woman’s face, saying, “Just in time, eh?” While trying to recover my composure, I add insult to injury by realizing that there is an entire team of VERY cute foreign soccer players (later found out to be ITALIAN!) staring at me in a warm, harmlessly entertained manner. Perhaps it was my sweaty forehead, my tearing off of the three layers confining me in a makeshift oven, or my continuous, frenzied fanning of my itching face that caught their eye…
At any rate, all of that was somewhat anticipated, and really didn’t turn out as bad as it could have. I made all my flights, made some interesting chatting partners, watched several movies, and ate some of the worst food I’ve ever had. But it is what follows that created the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back.
Touching down into Cape Town was a beautiful descent, despite the fact that it was pitch black out. I had wanted to see the whole landscape of South Africa lain out before me in the sunset, but instead was pleasantly surprised by the twinkling lights that illuminated the city of my new home. The amount of lights I could see surprised me, yet the big patches of black abyss did not; I assumed those to be the townships, whose residents are not lucky enough to have electricity or running water, among many other luxuries we take for granted daily. Once arriving in the modest yet increasingly modern looking airport, I proceeded to the immigration center. These are where they look over your passport, ask you your intentions on being in South Africa, may hassle you with some particulars like an address to where you are staying or detailed bits of your itinerary, but nothing unmanageable. Therefore, I was not expecting any kind of issues in the slightest. Boy was I gravely mistaken. I watched everyone else go up to the window, hand their passport over, and leave on their merry way within a matter of 2 minutes. Assuming mine to be the same, I handed over my passport to a sweet looking African 20-something woman with a nice, friendly face. “Return ticket please,” she asks for verification purposes. All is going well until she tries to scan my visa inside my passport. I see her try several times, but not get results. She moves to plan B: squinting to closely examine the letter series above the barcode to type it in. “I can’t read it…” she mumbles, barely audible under her breath. She plucks a few attempts into the computer⎯nothing. “Umm…I don know wat to do…I can’t read it…the letters…and it won’t scan.” My smile faded long ago with the initial “umm”, replaced by a furrowed brow. “You can’t read it,” I ask in somewhat disbelief, “and it won’t scan?” “No I can’t, you see if maybe you can tell me what the letters are”. I fumble out loud through the first couple, and strain my eyes with all their might, but the last two letters are simple illegible. All the while, my panic level is skyrocketing. She goes on to explain to me that she cannot scan the barcode, nor read the letters, and therefore doesn’t know how she is going to get me into the country. She inquires about a little white sticker that should have come on the passport that had a barcode and the visa number on it, saying that is the usual way they get people through. I vaguely remember tearing the two stickers off upon receiving the visa, considering them severely unimportant due to the lack of warnings saying “DO NOT REMOVE STICKERS”, aside from my mom cautiously advising me to maybe keep them on⎯something I severely regret not heeding in the now, but I dared not tell the lady I took them off, for whatever reason.
Terror beginning to creep up on me, I frantically ask her if there is someone I can call, anything I can do to fix this. “It’s not really what you can do, so much as me…I need to ask becos I do not know how I can do this really”. After she confers with several of her colleagues in their native Xhosa tongue, the clicking language that would have on any other occasion caught my full and complete attention in fascination (a language I hope to learn in my stay here), she asks me if I have documents from University of Cape Town stating my acceptance. Knowing full and well that I had left the copies with my mom and failed to take some of them with me, not thinking I’d need them, I started ever so slowing tearing up. I had no idea how I was going to get out of this one. Visa business is not joking matter, and most countries have impenetrable rules and regulations regarding this kind of thing. I scrambled through my neatly organized folders of paperwork, and tried to give her a few sheets that while I knew they were not what she was looking for, thought maybe something would work. She reviewed them, and then pointed me to a bench to sit at while she went to ask her supervisor for clearance. At this point, I was nearing hysterics. I had no phone, no one to help me, no resources…I felt the most futile and frustrated I’d been in a long time. I sat, trying to calm myself with breathing, which only further pushed me into hyperventilation. Gasping to catch my breath with tears streaming down my face as the airport cleared out, I knew this wasn’t the way these things should be handled. One should remain calm and collected, and figure the rational way out. But my thought process was so far from that, and I didn’t think it would be coming back to its senses any time soon given my state.
After about 45 minutes in total spent at that window, I retreated to the benches. While I sat trying only to regulate my breathing so I didn’t pass out or choke, a short, airport uniformed African man with a jovial presence approached me. “Aww miss why you cryin?...’is ok…shh” he asked me with the most genuine concern I’d felt the entire trip. Through spurts of breath I told him what happened (or tried to). “Aww, so you a-lec-see? Don’t you worry miss. You got to calm down. Shh…I will take care of it” He explained to me that he was the supervisor, and that he was able to figure out some sort of way to process my visa (I was unable to understand exactly how in the midst of my choked-back sobs I was trying so hard to repress) and that everything would be fine. “See now, are you happy to be in South Africa?” Feeling safe and shielded by this man’s perplexing care for my predicament, he was able to talk me down from my hyperventilated state. “You know, you got to stop cryin and calm down, cos over at customs, they just send ya back to other way if they see you sad like that,” he persuaded tenderly, “and usually, we have very strict policy and we not let people in. But for you, ‘is ok”. He asked me what I was going to study here, where I would attend university, and explained with bursting pride to me that he just received his bachelors degree with honors from University of Western Cape. “Why you not go there instead of UCT?” he half joked, but slightly seriously demanded to know, with a tinge of school rivalry afloat in his voice. As he walked me back to the window, all the people (4 in total) who had been a part of this fiasco process gathered around the window seemingly to debrief with me and ensure that I was alright. “Did I scare you? I really didant mean ta…I was tryin to be so nice and helpful…did I really scare you miss?” the lady I initially worked with kept inquiring with the deepest concern that she had somehow offended me. I assured her it was not her in the slightest who scared me, but the situation. “now, you gon have to look me up when you get to school miss” my uniformed guardian angel stated with certainty. I agreed, knowing with sincere regret and sadness that I would probably never see this man again. “I gon hafta take you out…not tonight….but soon…” he trailed off, as though he didn’t really intend for me to hear, but hoped I did. I smiled, and thanked all of them for their immense gratitude and services several times over, and the supervisor walked me over to the other side of the gate, and bid me farewell with a charming smile and kindest eyes imaginable.
This leads me to close with my second set of words (and phrases!) to describe my first contact with the so-called “Rainbow Nation”: Genuine. Caring. Warmhearted. Helpful almost to a fault. Extremely proud of their culture and nation, and foreigners’ interests in exploring it. And above all, welcoming with open arms.
Despite the fact that I went on from what I shall now call “the visa terror” only to be greeted (or in this case, NOT greeted) by my suitcases (meaning they were delayed and still god knows where but apparently “on their way”), closed currency conversion stations, and the news that my driver was 2 minutes away from leaving and considering my name a mistake on his lists, I think I will come to associate more widely my second list of words with coloring my first experiences here; to painting a picture of the South Africa I eagerly awaited through years of study, reading, and research, and to the South Africa that I hope to solidify more concretely in these coming months that does not pale in comparison to the high standards I have barricaded around it.
The first set could easily include any of the following: Disastrous. Pathetic. Frightening. Hyperventilation. Maybe looking back it was not as bad as it seemed, but at the time, I sure felt each of these emotions to a strong degree. To start off, even before Cape Town contact, my flights were a mess. For some reason, my travel agent thought it a good idea to leave me 40 minutes to navigate the Detroit airport all the way to my plane taking off to Amsterdam, and then 50 minutes to confusedly scamper around the Amsterdam airport to find my flight to Cape Town. In short: not cool. Any delays in my flights whatsoever could prove tragic to my fragile schedule. And of course, there were delays. Why not, right? First, on the way in to Detroit, there was too much rain and fog to land, leaving to pilot to announce a 30 minute pause in our landing while we circled above our destination. Luckily, I made that flight with a little help along the way, but only to encounter another obstacle. Apparently, there is a machine underneath each plane that tows it backwards so that it can make a straight shoot off on the runway…but not on our plane! Our machine was “unexpectedly malfunctioning”, and wouldn’t pull the plane backwards. Another 40 minutes passed by, the machine was replaced, and we were on our way. All would have been simple if Amsterdam didn’t have a seemingly hundred-something mile runway that we had to taxi down for a good twenty minutes to get from where we landed to the actual airport. After exiting the plane, I barely had a chance to catch my breath before dropping to a dead run, searching fruitlessly for an airport employee, a board with flight postings…anything that would save me from being swallowed up by this completely foreign airport that appeared to be trying to make my life that much harder. With some help from a British man on his way to Ethiopia and a candy shop girl, I was racing off to my gate that was as far away from where I was as possible, politely yet hurriedly shuffling past happy couples on the people movers, trying not to bowl anyone over in my race to the finish. I pulled up, sticky with sweat and panting, feeling hives about to break out and cover my face, only to be greeted by a smiley Dutch woman’s face, saying, “Just in time, eh?” While trying to recover my composure, I add insult to injury by realizing that there is an entire team of VERY cute foreign soccer players (later found out to be ITALIAN!) staring at me in a warm, harmlessly entertained manner. Perhaps it was my sweaty forehead, my tearing off of the three layers confining me in a makeshift oven, or my continuous, frenzied fanning of my itching face that caught their eye…
At any rate, all of that was somewhat anticipated, and really didn’t turn out as bad as it could have. I made all my flights, made some interesting chatting partners, watched several movies, and ate some of the worst food I’ve ever had. But it is what follows that created the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back.
Touching down into Cape Town was a beautiful descent, despite the fact that it was pitch black out. I had wanted to see the whole landscape of South Africa lain out before me in the sunset, but instead was pleasantly surprised by the twinkling lights that illuminated the city of my new home. The amount of lights I could see surprised me, yet the big patches of black abyss did not; I assumed those to be the townships, whose residents are not lucky enough to have electricity or running water, among many other luxuries we take for granted daily. Once arriving in the modest yet increasingly modern looking airport, I proceeded to the immigration center. These are where they look over your passport, ask you your intentions on being in South Africa, may hassle you with some particulars like an address to where you are staying or detailed bits of your itinerary, but nothing unmanageable. Therefore, I was not expecting any kind of issues in the slightest. Boy was I gravely mistaken. I watched everyone else go up to the window, hand their passport over, and leave on their merry way within a matter of 2 minutes. Assuming mine to be the same, I handed over my passport to a sweet looking African 20-something woman with a nice, friendly face. “Return ticket please,” she asks for verification purposes. All is going well until she tries to scan my visa inside my passport. I see her try several times, but not get results. She moves to plan B: squinting to closely examine the letter series above the barcode to type it in. “I can’t read it…” she mumbles, barely audible under her breath. She plucks a few attempts into the computer⎯nothing. “Umm…I don know wat to do…I can’t read it…the letters…and it won’t scan.” My smile faded long ago with the initial “umm”, replaced by a furrowed brow. “You can’t read it,” I ask in somewhat disbelief, “and it won’t scan?” “No I can’t, you see if maybe you can tell me what the letters are”. I fumble out loud through the first couple, and strain my eyes with all their might, but the last two letters are simple illegible. All the while, my panic level is skyrocketing. She goes on to explain to me that she cannot scan the barcode, nor read the letters, and therefore doesn’t know how she is going to get me into the country. She inquires about a little white sticker that should have come on the passport that had a barcode and the visa number on it, saying that is the usual way they get people through. I vaguely remember tearing the two stickers off upon receiving the visa, considering them severely unimportant due to the lack of warnings saying “DO NOT REMOVE STICKERS”, aside from my mom cautiously advising me to maybe keep them on⎯something I severely regret not heeding in the now, but I dared not tell the lady I took them off, for whatever reason.
Terror beginning to creep up on me, I frantically ask her if there is someone I can call, anything I can do to fix this. “It’s not really what you can do, so much as me…I need to ask becos I do not know how I can do this really”. After she confers with several of her colleagues in their native Xhosa tongue, the clicking language that would have on any other occasion caught my full and complete attention in fascination (a language I hope to learn in my stay here), she asks me if I have documents from University of Cape Town stating my acceptance. Knowing full and well that I had left the copies with my mom and failed to take some of them with me, not thinking I’d need them, I started ever so slowing tearing up. I had no idea how I was going to get out of this one. Visa business is not joking matter, and most countries have impenetrable rules and regulations regarding this kind of thing. I scrambled through my neatly organized folders of paperwork, and tried to give her a few sheets that while I knew they were not what she was looking for, thought maybe something would work. She reviewed them, and then pointed me to a bench to sit at while she went to ask her supervisor for clearance. At this point, I was nearing hysterics. I had no phone, no one to help me, no resources…I felt the most futile and frustrated I’d been in a long time. I sat, trying to calm myself with breathing, which only further pushed me into hyperventilation. Gasping to catch my breath with tears streaming down my face as the airport cleared out, I knew this wasn’t the way these things should be handled. One should remain calm and collected, and figure the rational way out. But my thought process was so far from that, and I didn’t think it would be coming back to its senses any time soon given my state.
After about 45 minutes in total spent at that window, I retreated to the benches. While I sat trying only to regulate my breathing so I didn’t pass out or choke, a short, airport uniformed African man with a jovial presence approached me. “Aww miss why you cryin?...’is ok…shh” he asked me with the most genuine concern I’d felt the entire trip. Through spurts of breath I told him what happened (or tried to). “Aww, so you a-lec-see? Don’t you worry miss. You got to calm down. Shh…I will take care of it” He explained to me that he was the supervisor, and that he was able to figure out some sort of way to process my visa (I was unable to understand exactly how in the midst of my choked-back sobs I was trying so hard to repress) and that everything would be fine. “See now, are you happy to be in South Africa?” Feeling safe and shielded by this man’s perplexing care for my predicament, he was able to talk me down from my hyperventilated state. “You know, you got to stop cryin and calm down, cos over at customs, they just send ya back to other way if they see you sad like that,” he persuaded tenderly, “and usually, we have very strict policy and we not let people in. But for you, ‘is ok”. He asked me what I was going to study here, where I would attend university, and explained with bursting pride to me that he just received his bachelors degree with honors from University of Western Cape. “Why you not go there instead of UCT?” he half joked, but slightly seriously demanded to know, with a tinge of school rivalry afloat in his voice. As he walked me back to the window, all the people (4 in total) who had been a part of this fiasco process gathered around the window seemingly to debrief with me and ensure that I was alright. “Did I scare you? I really didant mean ta…I was tryin to be so nice and helpful…did I really scare you miss?” the lady I initially worked with kept inquiring with the deepest concern that she had somehow offended me. I assured her it was not her in the slightest who scared me, but the situation. “now, you gon have to look me up when you get to school miss” my uniformed guardian angel stated with certainty. I agreed, knowing with sincere regret and sadness that I would probably never see this man again. “I gon hafta take you out…not tonight….but soon…” he trailed off, as though he didn’t really intend for me to hear, but hoped I did. I smiled, and thanked all of them for their immense gratitude and services several times over, and the supervisor walked me over to the other side of the gate, and bid me farewell with a charming smile and kindest eyes imaginable.
This leads me to close with my second set of words (and phrases!) to describe my first contact with the so-called “Rainbow Nation”: Genuine. Caring. Warmhearted. Helpful almost to a fault. Extremely proud of their culture and nation, and foreigners’ interests in exploring it. And above all, welcoming with open arms.
Despite the fact that I went on from what I shall now call “the visa terror” only to be greeted (or in this case, NOT greeted) by my suitcases (meaning they were delayed and still god knows where but apparently “on their way”), closed currency conversion stations, and the news that my driver was 2 minutes away from leaving and considering my name a mistake on his lists, I think I will come to associate more widely my second list of words with coloring my first experiences here; to painting a picture of the South Africa I eagerly awaited through years of study, reading, and research, and to the South Africa that I hope to solidify more concretely in these coming months that does not pale in comparison to the high standards I have barricaded around it.
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